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meal planning, grocery shopping, and unpacking is all me please and thank you. (my husband would help if I asked) but i guess i like to manage it independently, for now at least!

I'm a big winter person. i appreciate nature just as much in the cold months. I like to ski so that helps. If you get snow where you live...snowshoeing? It's a relaxing outdoor winter activity...

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It's funny - meal planning, grocery shopping and unpacking are 3 separate big tasks that must be coordinated so often end up with one person! Lately, I've been doing the meal-planning and making the grocery list and Jim's done the shopping and unpacking. Going to the store together is for "special occasions" now! 🤣 we do get some snow - but not as much as we used to - winter has become a bit more grey and rainy - I love showshoeing and would love to do it more!

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you are right, they are huge tasks! I like how you and Jim are splitting it up.

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I’m also on Bennifer divorce watch…I’ve got popcorn handy. (Am I a bad person?) I totally agree with you on the sugar-craving front, which I’ve learned from my partner—he stopped eating sweets a few years ago.

Don’t even get me started on the grocery shopping/meal planning topics…I could write an essay! 🫠

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"Bennifer" is a real-life soap opera! I actually think there might be an essay (or multiple essays!) on grocery shopping and how to do it happily...!

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I'd read all of 'em. It's a whole thing!! 👀

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embracing winter is about having the right outer wear —i say thus with some authority bc i grew

up in buffalo.

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The right gear makes all the difference!

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Haha - you just made me realize that changing hairstyles is the hallmark of seasons passing in movies. I just watched The Idea of You and noticed immediately that we know five years has passed when Anne Hathaway goes from bangs to no bangs. I wonder how often people change their hairstyles in real life!

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this is a great question - I can tell you how often I've changed hairstyles in my life: twice! I've always had a "bob" and have gone from having bangs (or a "fringe" as it's called in Australia!) to no bangs. I have slightly changed my part in the last few years to be closer to the middle, under the influence of my teen daughter (and fashion consultant)...

what about you?!

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I love grocery shopping alone because I know where everything is and get through quickly, ha!

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I've also heard people (mostly women) say they like grocery shopping alone because they get to actually "be alone!"

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We're a household where typically only one person goes out for groceries, but I agree that it can be a lot more fun to go together - though that's also when we end up deviating most from the list and grabbing things that just look fun (we're bad influences on one another).

I love what you said about lunch conversations vs. dinner ones, and I'm going to start really paying attention to the differences when I'm out!

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the first rule of grocery shopping: must stick to list at all times!

the lunch vs. dinner conversation observation doesn't always hold true - I'd love to know what you notice!

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Completely agree about lunch conversations!

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I don't know why I just noticed this recently when I think it's been true all along!

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Natural cold plunging weekly in the winter has changed a bit part of my perspective on winter...being out in the nature shows the magic ✨

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Getting outside and enjoying it seems like the ticket - I am so often rushing back inside after a few mins outside!

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Lace! Looking for a copy now!

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I started it last night - be warned: it's dated! The descriptions of clothes and accessories are amazing!! 😉😉

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