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Nov 11Liked by Amelia Wilson

This movie was filmed near the town where I grew up...so all of these pearls of wisdom felt tailor-made for me (during an especially rough week). Just what I needed to read—#1 especially!

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oh wow! so cool to have grown up in Ferris country! we all need a day off here and there! xo

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Nov 11Liked by Amelia Wilson

Love this! We live in Perth - from Ireland - and I am trying to plan our upcoming 15-year anniversary. Ideally we would go away for a night or two but with no family it's not really an option to dump kids with pals. Your idea of a day date is wonderful! I am going to do that - book a babysitter to come at 9am and plan a great day! Its in December so will be lovely and sunny and can enjoy the beach, tennis and all the cafes. What a great idea! x

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you are going to have the best day date to celebrate your anniversary! so glad you like the idea!

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Nov 9Liked by Amelia Wilson

I am visiting my parents right now and I have the chance to go out tonight with a dear friend who I rarely get to see. I was feeling guilty about it because I know I have a limited time left with my parents and I felt like I should stay home with them … but thinking WWFD made me feel better! This evening out with my friend will be a special memory, whereas staying home for dinner would be one of many similar dinners that will not stick in my mind. Just because my parents are getting older doesn’t mean I have to hoard every moment with them.

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oh wow, I am so glad WWFD worked for you! and that you had a fun night out with your friend!

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Full fat fun is such a great term! Now that I live in Chicago, I can’t go to the Art Institute for any show without stopping first to stand in front of the Chagall!

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Nov 9Liked by Amelia Wilson

Yes, I agree! I will be incorporating "full fat fun" into my vocabulary!

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it’s so much better than the reduced fat kind! 😉

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Of course you must stop and recreate that iconic pose! 💃

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Amelia!!! I have not watched this movie, can you believe it? I must do it so I'm able to come read your note with the backstory haha.

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OMG, yes, you have to see this movie! It’s an 80s classic and it really does hold up! I can’t wait to hear what you think about it!

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That damn 4,000 weeks book! I think about it every day.

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me too! time is so weird - I understand intellectually that life is short but some days/weeks/seasons feel so incredibly long!

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As a Chicagoan, I have a special place in my heart for this movie! This past summer it was shown at the city’s biggest downtown park and I went with some friends. During the Twist and Shout scene, the entire audience got up and danced. It was so fun! I’m a meticulous planner sometimes to a fault, and I DO plan strategic days off, but it reminded me that I need to leave room for spontaneity.

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That is SO fun! It's a movie that really holds up - I've always loved it, and it was fun, as I was writing it, to think about Ferris as a middle aged man! Here's to more strategic and spontaneous fun!

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